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I thought it was time to give you an update on my life and share something that I have had on my mind recently. As most of you have probably seen by now on my Instagram, I have decided to quit teaching kindergarten. This decision was so hard and yet so easy to make at the same time. I have absolutely loved my time as a kindergarten teacher and honestly I felt like it was my ‘calling’ in life. When I think about what I’m good at, I’ve always known I was a good teacher. I am patient, loving, enthusiastic about life, and have enough energy to hang out with five year olds all day. So when I started thinking that maybe this wasn’t what I wanted to do with my life anymore, it was hard.
I would tell Kyle everyday that I was a teacher…..that was what I was and quitting that would cause me to lose who I am. Then I would worry about the money, we didn’t need my kindergarten teacher salary and I could easily make it up by teaching more piano students, but it still worried me. Kyle told me that I needed to take the money out of it, that the way I felt and what I wanted to accomplish in life was much more important than a little extra money.
I would come home from work exhausted, frustrated, and overwhelmed. Teaching is hard, absolutely amazing and rewarding, but hard. One of the hardest parts for me though was that I didn’t feel I could be my best self anymore. I was getting torn between being a kindergarten teacher, a piano teacher, a voice teacher, and a blogger. Then on top of that a wife, a new homeowner, and a friend. I loved being all of these roles and I didn’t mind being busy because I felt lucky to have such amazing roles to fulfill everyday, but then it hit me. I wasn’t able to put into action all the ideas I had for all my different roles or at least not to the best of my ability. That was when I realized it’s okay to end something to move forward to be your best self. I wasn’t quitting being a kindergarten teacher, I was going to grow to be a better piano teacher. I wasn’t quitting on my profession and years of schooling, I was taking that schooling and using it in a different light. I wasn’t quitting on who I was or what I had thought I was suppose to be when I grew up, I was progressing, changing, and working toward being someone better that I could become. I wasn’t limiting myself, but making myself grow. I wasn’t losing my identity, I was learning that I am more than my job title….and so are you.
You are more than what you do for your job. You are more than your job title. You are more than what people tell you that you are and you are more than you think you are. You are more than the number of followers you have and are more than the number of likes you get on a photo. You are more than your hair color, the clothes you wear, the makeup you put on your face, and the shoes on your feet. You are more than what house you have or what your house looks like. You are more than what food you cook your husband for dinner or what surprise gift you give him for his birthday. You are more than how much money your self-owned business is making or the reviews you get. You are more than where you shop and what brands you buy from. You are more than the shape and size of your body.
You are more.
You are the way you treat other people. You are the way you cheer others on and build others up. You are the things that make you happy and the smile on your face. You are the beliefs you have and the goals you strive toward. You are the confidence you deserve to have about your self. You are your hopes and dreams. You are the person you know you want to be and can be. You are capable of so much more and don’t let anyone hinder you from your fullest potential.
You are more.
It doesn’t matter if you are a teacher, a blogger, a stay at home mom, a business owner, an employee, or even unemployed. You are more than that ‘title’ that you think you relate to. Yes those titles can be a wonderful thing. I love my title of teacher, wife, sister, friend, and blogger, but those roles don’t define me and how I live my life, and they don’t define you either.
So when I finally decided to end my time as a kindergarten teacher, it was hard. I was sad and felt like I had lost who I was, but then I realized I hadn’t.
I am more.
You are more.
I absolutely love this!! I struggled so much when I became a mom because I thought I lost who I was but I realized I am so much more than what I used to be! And I love who I am today even more.
YES!!!! Exactly! I’m not even a mom, but I could imagine that this is what it is like, but even harder. I am so glad you have come to love who you are and realized you are more! Thanks for your comment! xo
What a timely post for me to read and so well expressed. After 20 years of teaching, I have decided to leave the profession to pursue other passions. It is exciting but any change can come with challenges. I’m very excited for you! Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
WOW!! 20 years? That is a long time, but good for you for realizing that it was time for a change. It was hard for me and I had only been teaching 3 years, but I knew it was time for a change. I’m excited for you and so glad that this post helped you! xo
Beautiful dress! And thank you for sharing! I’m glad you did what you knew was best for you and your husband!
Thank you! I love this dress! And yeah it was a tough choice, but sometimes you just have to follow what you know you need to do and trust in the Lord right? Thanks for commenting Dani! xoxo
Karli, this is exactly what I needed to read today!! Thank you thank you!!
Oh Ashley! I am so so glad!!! Thank you for commenting! xoxo
What a great post! Definitely something that I believe everyone in this day and age with social media can relate to.
YES!!! Especially in regards to social media right now! It is such a tough day and age to remember what really matters. Thanks for your comment Kelli! xoxo
Well said! I’ve felt this when I stopped working to stay home with my kids. Most women I was around had careeers outside the home and kids. I love being a mom but some people don’t consider it a ‘job’.
Yeah I can’t imagine leaving to be a mom, it would probably be a whole other experience. So lucky you can be a mom though! I can’t wait for that to be me. I definitely see it as a job and it is sad that others don’t, because it is a non stop job! You are such a cute mom too Jen! Keep it up! xoxo
yes, I completely agreed that what have you described from starting your career as Teacher to leave your job and be Blogger, Sometimes, It could be difficult as much as we thought.
Yes exactly! Thank you for commenting!